Just a little PSA that I feel should be said, though really- this ought to be common sense.
The fact that someone who RPs also writes or draws erotica DOES NOT mean you should ever assume they will ERP with you. It DOES NOT mean they are always (or ever) open to sexual conversations. It DOES NOT mean it’s okay for you to badger them for something they’re uncomfortable with.
What you can and should do is BE RESPECTFUL. Don’t slut-shame us for not wanting to get into ERP. “But you write/draw it!” is not ever an appropriate reply to “No, I’m not comfortable with that”.
Treat us like human beings, because I promise, the fact that we choose to share sexual content we’ve created does not make us “less than”.