Okay if you ever feel bad because you’re <years> old and you “don’t know what you’re doing with your life”

My counselor in her own words: “Who the fuck cares? I just turned 43 and I don’t know if I wanna do this when I’m grown up. Who gives a shit?”

The ppl in your life who you think “have it together” or “know exactly what they’re doing” very likely don’t have a damn clue what they’re doing or how they’ve made it that far. Shit most of them probably look @ other ppl THEY know and feel shitty bc they don’t have it as together as those ppl

Just worry about you ok, worry abt u and don’t compare yourself to other ppl

100% true. The most important thing I learned is pretty much nobody has it as together as you think they do.

You just get a lot better at faking it.