if a girl is making you uncomfortable, YOU ARE ALLOWED TO SAY IT.
fucking crush the stereotype that men are always supposed to âwant itâ
Itâs really such a sad idea. I remember once with my ex, I was kissing him when we were in bed, and it started getting more heated, but I could tell it felt different. I stopped and asked if he wanted to carry on, and he said yes, but I knew him well. I had to ask again before he admitted he wasnât really feeling it at the time. It just made me feel so bad and so upset for him. I think thereâs more pressure on men to be sexual. Men love sex, theyâd never want to turn it down, if they do itâs unmanly, itâs gay, itâs girly. Itâs something ingrained into them from such a young age. Itâs terrible and wrong. They think they have no right to not want sex.
Not all men have sky-high sex drives. I doubt any man in the world wants sex 100% of the time. Itâs fine to reject it in any situation, whether a planned one night stand or a committed relationship. Itâs fine to change your mind before or halfway through.
Men, it is FINE for you to not want sex, and it is FINE to say no if you want to. In fact, please do. Itâs not guaranteed the other person will be able to sense your discomfort.
All of this. Itâs always okay to say no, or wait, or maybe not right now or whatever it is youâre feeling.
Forever reblog.
It is always okay to say No, for any reason, and at any point.
them: SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST MEANS HUMANS MUST BE INDIVIDUALLY SELF-SUFFICIENT AND COMPLETELY INDEPENDENT
biologist:
Like literally the only reason we didnât go extinct is because we are aggressively social creatures who community organized and helped each other when faced with disasters that drove other species over the brink.Â
 (Like weâre so aggressively social that we looked at APEX PREDATORS and went âthey look soft! Friend????â)
(The answer was yes because wolves are also aggressively social and they adopted the strange tall not-wolves just as eagerly.)
humans @ wolves: holy shit these things are so cute i wonder if theyâll let us pet them?
wolves @ humans: holy shit these things are so cute i wonder if theyâll pet us?
i feel like i canât go anywhere anymore without people soothsaying my downfall. even the cashier at taco bell was all âthe flock of crows taken to following you portent a disastrous and blah blah fucking blah,â i get it, iâm about to undergo a storm of tribulation, what frickin everÂ
So we have this cucumber cyborg ninja boi but i want to address the fact that kimono he is wearing is right over left.
Why does that matter? cuz this is why
Heâs wearing what he wore in his funeral basically.
Also hanzo and genji both got this matching spray and its p dope
But now take a look at this white flower on genjiâs side(right). Those flowers are called chrysanthemum and it has different colour variations
including pink, yellow, red, white, bronze, magenta and purple.
Once again why does this matter u may ask, well thats because white chrysanthemum are used as funerary offerings in asian culture (China,Korea,Japan).
At first when i saw the kimono was on right over left i thought it was a mistake, but now that they choose white chrysanthemum out of all possible flowers and its colours. It made more sense to me.
I canât believe genji is fucking dead
I bet Genji does this sort of thing on purpose to annoy Hanzo. Along the lines of âHey remember that time you killed me. Good times.â