If you force an introvert into a social gathering they don’t feel comfortable with/don’t want to go to you are responsible for their good time.
You have to include them in conversations or go sit with them when they have no one to talk to.
Because if you can’t do that, don’t make them come. Don’t force them in a situation where they feel alone and helpless and leave them floundering.
“But it’s good for them to get out.” You’re not making me adapt. You’re not making me more social. You’re reinforcing every negative opinion I have on these gatherings and giving me the resolve to say ‘Fuck off’ the next time you try this.
I would also like to add to this rule. Do not trap them there. Make sure they have a way to get home without you or you are willing to take them home if they feel uncomfortable. Even if you do spend time with them and make sure they have a good time let them leave if they want. Social interaction even with people they know and like can be tiring and they can’t always keep up with extroverts.
Is it just me or was this year like … Really fucking overwhelming? Like everything’s that’s happened to you this year has shaped you into a completely different person that you were at the beginning of this year
someone: gabriel reyes aka reaper is the one who bombed the swiss base because he is jealous of the promotion—
me, an Intellectual: gabriel reyes was framed by the U.N. because it was easier to put the blame on a man who ran black ops and knew that the corruption ran deeper than it seems, they were also the ones who exposed Blackwatch to the public so that they could suspend them and therefore all of the B.W.’s operations that threatened them. Gabriel Reyes was Framed by The U.N. because They Knew they cannot Fool and Manipulate him like they did with Jack Morrison, so they compromised several missions including the one that Ana went missing on and created a rift between the two men that ultimately lead to the divide between them, and their downfall. Gabriel Reyes Was Framed.
