You guys. Please. Stop calling everyone you disagree with “abusive”. Please stop fucking throwing that term around. That’s a really serious thing to accuse someone of and it’s so hugely offensive and damaging to actual victims. And I know sometimes some of your hearts are in the right place, but you’re usually wrong and just slandering people and it’s not ok, especially when your only interaction has been a few arguments and no actual personal relationship. Please fucking stop calling everyone you don’t like abusive. Please.