me: well my straight friends from middle school all said I am asexual, and I don’t have a problem per se with the label, because it kind of does represent my feelings towards sexuality, I just don’t know what to do with myself right now. am I the only person like this? where are the other asexual people?
lgbt tumblr blogs: Asexuality is a thing, and part of the lgbt+ community!
me: fuckin sweet
ace discourse: Not So Fast! you’re not Gay Enough™ for us to include you in the ingroup of Historically Oppressed Gays And Trans People. since youre not Gay Enough™ by our standards, you’re one of The Straights™ so we’re excluding you and all asexuals who arent Gay Enough™ from our community, because youre Straight™
me: but I literally was just excluded from the privileged group The Straights™ by literal privileged Straight people. where do I go now?
bi people, from under the bus: hey