Month: September 2015

thedatingfeminist:

I honestly think relationships in general would be healthier, in general, if we didn’t believe they should last forever.

When the default is “forever” and shorter relationships are seen as a failure, we miss out on a lot. We stay in relationships that don’t work because they’re not “bad enough” to leave, as though not wanting the relationship anymore isn’t a good enough reason. We deny ourselves happy memories, saying “If it doesn’t work now, our love then wasn’t real.” We pass on relationships we know would be short, because if it doesn’t last forever, what’s the point in joy in the moment?

An ending isn’t a failure. It’s an ending. Most relationships have them. What would our relationships be like if we stopped focusing on our fear of endings and started focusing on what we – and our friends, partners, and family – need right now?

epiphanyofstupidity:

tabbitcha:

bollymusings:

nickthenerd:

1. Soup.io – well-known alternative to Tumblr. Reblogging, post types, themes, collab blogs, dashboard, artsy, great community already there. Soup can auto-import everything you’ve posted on Tumblr.
2. TypePad – Includes reblogging. Dashboard and post types similar to Tumblr.
3. Jux – Artful posts, beautiful blogging experience

Reblogging cause one day it just may be neccessary.

Reblogging because I want to escape

Just a heads up Jux doesn’t work anymore.

hopeisallwehaveinthisworld:

You guys are killin it

aidan-khontus:

kokiron:

pyreclaws:

jibini explain how my au ra bro is wearing earplugs for the siren part of the story

Clearly Au Ra just jam socks on over their horns for “earplugs”