Month: August 2015

oceanwrath: death knight oc

oceanwrath:

death knight oc

uszetaham: Not gonna work for what I needed it to but hey look here’s that stupid thing in color now uncleclustersthirdbrain

uszetaham:

Not gonna work for what I needed it to but hey look here’s that stupid thing in color now

uncleclustersthirdbrain

my friend’s girlfriend cheated on them and was caught. My friend is clearly breaking up with her but her entire rhetoric is “It’s my body and I do what I want with it. You don’t own me”. My friend was completely unable to find a come-back to that logic without some weird confrontation about sexual exclusivity and it got me thinking too. They are already broken up for about 2 weeks now but when I try to re-simulate the situation to myself I wouldn’t know how I’d handle it either.

thatdiabolicalfeminist:

Cheating isn’t wrong because your partner owns your body and gets to decide when you have sex, it’s wrong because you’re breaking an agreement you made with your partner.

Monogamy is an agreement that people in a relationship should talk about openly and explicitly and decide on together without pressuring each other. If people haven’t agreed to be monogamous, having sex with someone else isn’t “cheating”. If people have agreed not to have sex with others outside the relationship, it’s wrong to break that agreement, just like it’s wrong to break any other agreement you make with your partner.

Like any other agreement, some people will think this is very serious and others won’t mind as much, but it’s still important to keep any agreements you make with your partner unless and until you inform them that you don’t plan to keep that agreement anymore.

It’s not kind or respectful to sneak around and not allow your partner to make decisions about the relationship based on current information instead of old agreements they assume you’re still keeping.

varae-ver-you-are:

I would like to nominate tevruden as the world’s biggest smart ass.

I am going to add context that makes this make less sense:

Ren Blackhand: We can keep it in a handy dandy Google doc
Tevruden: Reasons to strangle your co-worker?

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tevruden: sketchys: Commission to tevrudenWaist up, complete! :D This comes with a conversation: Ren Blackhand: Holy shitRen Blackhand: It hasn’t even been a week!Tevruden: Ren you know how hard I goRen Blackhand: I don’t know why I am surprised Afternoon reblog of

tevruden:

sketchys:

Commission to tevruden
Waist up, complete! 😀

This comes with a conversation:

Ren Blackhand: Holy shit
Ren Blackhand: It hasn’t even been a week!
Tevruden: Ren you know how hard I go
Ren Blackhand: I don’t know why I am surprised

Afternoon reblog of DemonHunter!Tev