Arae’sae: Hasn’t had one yet. It’s just been little events that have built up over time.
Varaelian: Becoming the elf he is today. The day he stepped through the portal at the Caverns of Time and dropped into Icecrown and became the young lord, changed his life forever, even moreso than the Sundering had. He learned to live, love and see the world more than he ever could watching it through a window.
Vaelios: The moment he smacked Antaeus. It was the point where his arrogance and anger over his life had come to a boiling point and it was taken out on someone he considered his hero… and through it all, he found himself humbled in the end.