Dont shame Asexuals who:

  • Have/Had sex
  • Watch porn
  • Masturbate 
  • Like sex
  • Have/Had a significant other

It’s lack of sexual attraction, not sex drive 

Dont shame Aromantics who:

  • Have been/Are in a relationship
  • Like romance (Novels or otherwise)
  • Are affectionate 
  • Have/Had sex
  • Are allosexual

It’s the lack of romantic attraction, not romantic endeavors