Month: April 2015

dinnasaw: dinnasaw: this is literally the dumbest and most embarrassing thing i’ve ever done based on one tag i relize this morning the context is unclear because i didnt color in the dk eyes. Is it bad that i could tell from the armor?

dinnasaw:

dinnasaw:

this is literally the dumbest and most embarrassing thing i’ve ever done based on one tag

i relize this morning the context is unclear because i didnt color in the dk eyes.

Is it bad that i could tell from the armor?

a-gutter-of-flowers: a-gutter-of-flowers: Eeeee!  hornedfreak sent me the bust sketch of danaan13‘s Cinori ^^   Ty so much! :D Bringing this back since I’m not sure of many people saw this, and hornedfreak did such an amazing job :o

a-gutter-of-flowers:

a-gutter-of-flowers:

Eeeee!  hornedfreak sent me the bust sketch of danaan13‘s Cinori ^^   Ty so much! 😀

Bringing this back since I’m not sure of many people saw this, and

hornedfreak

did such an amazing job 😮

If you don’t want people to assume your characters are gay maybe don’t call them gay? I don’t want to sound mean but I see this a lot as well. LOTS of bi/pan/ace/etc people or people with those specific types of characters get upset about people labeling them/their characters as gay but do it themselves. You can’t have it both ways.

tevruden:

icyvveins-deactivated20191230:

Ok 1. I don’t do it all the time, in fact I rarely call them gay publically, only when I’m livestreaming which is once in a blue moon. Literally I only joke about it in private convos, usually with people who KNOW their identities.

2. I know you didn’t mean to sound rude, but this was actually really rude. I’m ace and panromantic, I’m also a trans male identifying person – I joke about being gay all the time. Does that mean I’m not ace? No, because it’s a joke.

Most people who are assuming our OCs identities aren’t doing it because I’m saying “look at my gay babies, I love these nerds” they’re doing it solely based on what they see – the gender of their partner.

Case in point: I draw Ro fucking dudes a lot, I do this because I like drawing dudes. This does not make Ro any less bi if he fucks more dudes than ladies.

People assumed Tevruden was Bi because he’s dating both a woman and a man when in fact he is a sex-positive Asexual.

What really grinds my gears is that you’re insinuating that I am not allowed to joke about my character and – when he gets mistaken for something he is not – give up my right to speak out about it.

I know you probably meant well by this, but honestly this is what the community talks about when is comes to erasure.

Ngl anon, you sound kind of rude.

ANYWAY, CHATLOG TIME:

[2/22/15, 12:19:57 AM] Byriel: GAY
[2/22/15, 12:27:15 AM] Tevruden: Thaaaank you so much puj!
[2/22/15, 12:27:58 AM] Tevruden: Pxy don’t be rude
[2/22/15, 12:28:10 AM] Byriel: :B
[2/22/15, 12:28:15 AM] Tevruden: It’s not gay, neither of them are gay
[2/22/15, 12:28:29 AM] Byriel: I’m pretty sure the balls are gonna be touching soon
[2/22/15, 12:29:07 AM] Tevruden: Ro is bi and Tev is just not.
[2/22/15, 12:29:43 AM] Byriel: “No homo.” Tev whispers before cramming his dick into the DUDE’s butthole.
[2/22/15, 12:30:32 AM] Dante: he’s not romantically attracted
[2/22/15, 12:30:42 AM] Tevruden: Byriel the High Priest of Rude.
[2/22/15, 12:31:16 AM] Byriel: ALRIGHT well he is not gay but the action is gay. Geezus
[2/22/15, 12:31:26 AM] Byriel: I’ll clarify more in the future
[2/22/15, 12:31:31 AM] Byriel: The gay future
[2/22/15, 12:31:33 AM] Tevruden: thank

muddyinsanity:

nostopdasgay:

buttbuttbuttastronaut:

wwbioteach:

inkskinned:

it always really bothered me when wait staff ignored me + my friends just because we were young bc we are all really respectful people but the assumption was that we wouldn’t tip

anyway so fast fowards to when i became a waitress and one day this group of scrubbyass kids came in and i had 8 other tables with other people to look to but i overheard that one kid wanted a milkshake but he couldn’t afford it and the other kids offered to pay but he was like “nonono it’s fine” and i looked over and he just looked real run down and sad and stuff —- later it just so happened that our kitchen had a mixup so we had an extra shake and since it would just be dumped otherwise, i snuck it out to their table and gave it to him for free

and his friends were so fucking impressed by this they pooled every fucking cent they had i got a $50 tip and later his friend’s mom came in and said “i heard what you did for that boy” and gave me another 20 and offered me a better job working with her

and meanwhile at my other table a rich white guy i was serving complained bc he didn’t want to pay the 15% tip on a $8.90 bill and when his wife said “she’s been a good waitress, though,” he said, “but just plain good isn’t worth 15%”

That rich white guy is the same one that’s always saying people need to just work harder and get better jobs so they can get the things he thinks he worked for.

I work at a pizza place. I once got a table of 50 high schoolers. They all ordered small things like just fries and a drink or something like that adding up to around $250. They tipped a collective $65, that’s more than 25%. Meanwhile another day, I got a table of 15 upper middle class adults and they gave me $3. On a $160 order. That’s 2%.

The difference between those adults and the kids is most of those kids know what it’s like to work a min wage job.

And speaking as a hostess, i never get complaints from groups of teenagers if I tell them itll be a 35-45 min wait. They just smile, say thank you, and talk amongst eachother while waiting. But you know who does complain every 10 min? Middle aged adults with a serious issue of self-importance.

When I worked at the cafe during graveyard shift, I was helping another server serve their table. Said co-worker was in her late-40′s and the table in question was two teenagers who seemed to be out on a date of sorts. My co-worker apparently didn’t want to “deal with them” so I pretty much served her table and helped do refills and chatted with them.

By the time they were leaving, they paid the check and handed me a 20 (I think their bill in total was only 30?) and thanked me for treating them like adults. They also completely ignored the co-worker when they tried to say “thanks for coming!” after seeing me getting handed the 20.

Moral of the story: just treat them like actual customers and chances are they’ll be great. Sometimes you get the trouble makers, but 90% of the time they just want to eat food and be happy too.

If you don’t want people to assume your characters are gay maybe don’t call them gay? I don’t want to sound mean but I see this a lot as well. LOTS of bi/pan/ace/etc people or people with those specific types of characters get upset about people labeling them/their characters as gay but do it themselves. You can’t have it both ways.

icyvveins-deactivated20191230:

Ok 1. I don’t do it all the time, in fact I rarely call them gay publically, only when I’m livestreaming which is once in a blue moon. Literally I only joke about it in private convos, usually with people who KNOW their identities.

2. I know you didn’t mean to sound rude, but this was actually really rude. I’m ace and panromantic, I’m also a trans male identifying person – I joke about being gay all the time. Does that mean I’m not ace? No, because it’s a joke.

Most people who are assuming our OCs identities aren’t doing it because I’m saying “look at my gay babies, I love these nerds” they’re doing it solely based on what they see – the gender of their partner.

Case in point: I draw Ro fucking dudes a lot, I do this because I like drawing dudes. This does not make Ro any less bi if he fucks more dudes than ladies.

People assumed Tevruden was Bi because he’s dating both a woman and a man when in fact he is a sex-positive Asexual.

What really grinds my gears is that you’re insinuating that I am not allowed to joke about my character and – when he gets mistaken for something he is not – give up my right to speak out about it.

I know you probably meant well by this, but honestly this is what the community talks about when is comes to erasure.

Ngl anon, you sound kind of rude.

ANYWAY, CHATLOG TIME:

[2/22/15, 12:19:57 AM] Byriel: GAY
[2/22/15, 12:27:15 AM] Tevruden: Thaaaank you so much puj!
[2/22/15, 12:27:58 AM] Tevruden: Pxy don’t be rude
[2/22/15, 12:28:10 AM] Byriel: :B
[2/22/15, 12:28:15 AM] Tevruden: It’s not gay, neither of them are gay
[2/22/15, 12:28:29 AM] Byriel: I’m pretty sure the balls are gonna be touching soon
[2/22/15, 12:29:07 AM] Tevruden: Ro is bi and Tev is just not.
[2/22/15, 12:29:43 AM] Byriel: “No homo.” Tev whispers before cramming his dick into the DUDE’s butthole.
[2/22/15, 12:30:32 AM] Dante: he’s not romantically attracted
[2/22/15, 12:30:42 AM] Tevruden: Byriel the High Priest of Rude.
[2/22/15, 12:31:16 AM] Byriel: ALRIGHT well he is not gay but the action is gay. Geezus
[2/22/15, 12:31:26 AM] Byriel: I’ll clarify more in the future
[2/22/15, 12:31:31 AM] Byriel: The gay future
[2/22/15, 12:31:33 AM] Tevruden: thank