>someone sent boob pics to mark
>didn’t get a reply
>smears him, demands apology

This isn’t a case of manipulation, coercion or deceit (except, like, on your part). You sent those photos to him out of your own free will. He did not force you. That wasn’t even an actual request.

This is a situation where you did something of your own intent and you’re mad you didn’t get his affections or the photos reciprocated.

I’m sorry, hun— I understand that you’re hurt but you cannot fault him for something you did of your own accord and a poor decision. If he had MADE you send them to him, or coerced you or otherwise manipulated you, that would have been a different story. But he didn’t.

He didn’t do anything to you.