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deadcayot3: christ is watching
Asexual question:
Does “sexual desire” mean sexual attraction or sexual drive? Or both? Or neither? Because I know those are different.
When I say a person has no sexual desire, that means they have no sexual drive, meaning a want, or desire, to have sex with someone. But I guess you could say that desire for someone could mean being attracted to them. So maybe “desire” is not a good word to use when trying to define/describe asexual? 6_9
I would just use the words “sexual attraction” and “sex drive” (or libido) where a person’s ability to be attracted to someone sexually is independent of their overall sex drive. So someone who is asexual isn’t attracted to anyone sexually, but might still have a libido.
lambylingames: i may have scared myself too bad watching creepy video before bed…………. so i drew my scaredy-cat warrior until i felt better >:3;;;;
i may have scared myself too bad watching creepy video before bed…………. so i drew my scaredy-cat warrior until i felt better >:3;;;;
bleedingofskyline: Cutie Illidan <3 (http://www.zerochan.net/1259293)
ukitakejuushiro: tfw artist crush
I honestly think relationships in general would be healthier, in general, if we didn’t believe they should last forever.
When the default is “forever” and shorter relationships are seen as a failure, we miss out on a lot. We stay in relationships that don’t work because they’re not “bad enough” to leave, as though not wanting the relationship anymore isn’t a good enough reason. We deny ourselves happy memories, saying “If it doesn’t work now, our love then wasn’t real.” We pass on relationships we know would be short, because if it doesn’t last forever, what’s the point in joy in the moment?
An ending isn’t a failure. It’s an ending. Most relationships have them. What would our relationships be like if we stopped focusing on our fear of endings and started focusing on what we – and our friends, partners, and family – need right now?
Alternatives to Tumblr if Yahoo goes any further
- Soup.io – well-known alternative to Tumblr. Reblogging, post types, themes, collab blogs, dashboard, artsy, great community already there. Soup can auto-import everything you’ve posted on Tumblr.
- TypePad – Includes reblogging. Dashboard and post types similar to Tumblr.
- Jux – Artful posts, beautiful blogging experience
Reblogging cause one day it just may be neccessary.
Reblogging because I want to escape
Just a heads up Jux doesn’t work anymore.
Shoutout to all the asexuals
You guys are killin it