It’s probably not surprising that folks with executive dysfunction often have little difficulty getting stuff done when there’s someone around to tell us what to do and supervise us doing it. What’s perhaps more surprising is that it’s not necessarily due to fear of punishment: having a supervisor is effective even if the supervisor in question has no ability to actually compel obedience. Basically, “following direct orders” seems to be a totally separate executive pathway from “self-motivating”, and having trouble with the one doesn’t necessarily mean having trouble with the other.
Which, of course, is why you can end up with situations where your own self-care is garbage, but caring for your pet is totally fine: the benefit of having a supervisor ordering you around can be realised even if the party giving the orders is a cat.
but you ever look back on your old photos or drawings and they’re of friends or guys that totally back-stabbed you or did you wrong and you’re no longer on great terms or never speak to each other and you’re just like
….man the fuck was I thinking, that these people were gonna stick around, why did I put so much effort into our friendship for this SHITTY person and it was totally one-sided?
I just have a lot of art in my folders, ya dig
some of it is cute and good but I just
can’t use it
because of the other people in it
im sure some of you know exactly what im talking about
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SO YALL i’ve been reading this amazing fic by @banishfics and if yall are into sidlink it’s a GOOD READ! These are some drawings I’ve been doing as warmups that I’ve shared with Addison already a while back, and now wanted to share on my tumblr!
Coma Baby is great, please read it when you get the chance!
From top to bottom:
Link fighting with his pretty dirk, gifted by Sidon.
Brivere (Addison’s amazing Zora oc) looking very pretty in his finery.
Something that TOTALLY HASN’T HAPPENED but my polya ass wants to see. (Sidon + Link + Brivere)
Link talking out his ass to royalty because he’s a dumb-dumb (and Bazz giving him the BIG SIDE-EYE for it)
