Some people on the ace spectrum have had sex before, and that’s okay
Some people on the ace spectrum have never had sex before and never will, and that’s okay.
Some people on the ace spectrum are having sexual relationships currently, and that’s okay.
Some people in the ace spectrum don’t currently have sexual relationships but may in the future and that’s okay.
But what’s not okay is other people invalidating an asexual persons relationship based on their past, present, or future sexual activity.